Sacred Intimacy

Conscious Intimate Encounters

Sacred intimacy offers a healing space for exploring intimacy, touch and pleasure where you can slow down and be mindfully, playfully, and compassionately engaged with erotic energy. 

My approach to Sacred Intimacy

I invite you to slow down, listen to your mind, heart and body as you read the 4 principles to how I approach sacred intimacy.

Guided by an intention

As a sacred intimate, I approach sessions in service of you. To this end, every session is a co-creation guided by an intention that has been set by the client. Why are we entering this space together? What are you exploring or practicing? 

Embodied consent

Together we will agree upon the boundaries for a given session. Are there particular body parts, ways of touching, activities or language that is wanted or unwanted? We make agreements in advance and during the session we aim to stay in touch with our consent. Either one of us is free to request a stop, pause or change in what is happening.

Pleasure without expectations

Our sessions are a time to explore being present with pleasure and intimacy without the scripts, expectations and performances that often accompany sex. There may or may not be arousal, tissues may or may not engorge or have fluids. There may or may not be orgasms. There may be tears or laughter, the need to talk or be held. Everything is welcome.

Support before, during and after 

As a sacred intimate, I bring my therapeutic experience and training to guide and support you as desired before, during and after the experience. Sexological bodywork, somatic coaching, massage, mindfulness, compassion, and yoga tools such as breathwork and movement to name a few. 

The gifts of sacred intimacy

If you had a warm and caring space to explore physical intimacy without judgment, how would you use it? 

Many who have worked with sacred intimates report that the experience led to healing of past wounds, greater self-love, increased confidence, deepening authenticity and an expanded capacity to access pleasure, sensuality and connection to themselves, their body and others. 

You may already have an idea of what you would want to explore in a sacred intimacy session. Here’s some ways others have chosen to explore:

  • Exploring non-sexual physical intimacy

  • Accessing pleasure in a transitioning body

  • First sexual experiences with someone with a cock

  • Learning to give and receive pleasure

  • Practicing sexual intimacy without an agenda for orgasm

  • Practicing presence during sexual intimacy

  • Exploring anal and prostate pleasure

  • Exploring choice around orgasmic states or ejaculation

  • Practicing communicating in the moment - making requests, asking for consent, saying no, changing what is happening

  • Exploring energy genitals, toys, different ways to touch, etc

Getting Started with Sacred Intimacy

So you want to have a sacred intimacy session. Now what?

Explore your Intention

It’s time to tune into what you want. What are you hoping for out of our session(s)? 

You can opt for a single sacred intimacy session or you might know that you want more time. You might be looking for a pleasure focused massage or ready to dive into physical intimacy in the first session or you might want to spend the session talking, preparing and working towards physical contact. 

If you aren’t sure sacred intimacy is for you, or want to discuss the best way to explore your intention, you can book a discovery call. While not required, this is a great way to meet each other and find out if this could be a good match.

Book your session

If it is your first time booking a session, I will want to know something about what you are looking for and your intention for the session(s) before agreeing to the session. We can do this via email, whatsapp or a discovery call. It’s possible I will request a discovery call with you prior to booking so we can meet and discuss the possibilities and boundaries of the sessions. 

Be present for the session

What happens in a session is always a co-creation - aligned with your intention; a beautiful process of emergence. At the start, we take time to connect and ensure we’re clear on the intention for our time together. We can also agree upon how much time might need to be left at the end for integrating, showering and conversation.

Ready to explore or have a question?